Sunday, July 17, 2011
Teen Parents vs. Adult Parents?
I was a teen mom/ wife. It is time consuming.. frustrating at times.. and takes alot of money.. no matter what money plan you come up with.. things are also always going to come up. Medical bills.. clothes.. food.. all the newborn things you need... diapers.. then stuff to support you and your husband. I am a great mother i love my daughter so much and wouldn't have it any other way but not all teens & not all adults are ready.. it just depends on the person. I am managing working.. raisiong my child.. being married and now taking college classes.. at the end of the day i am exhausted but my daughter is worth it 100% :) Just not everyone is as lucky as me. Just remember your 17 so any plan you think you might have you really need to think about it for awhile longer.. is the guy your with the guy you want to spend forever with? does he have a good job with good money.. do you have medical insurance.. do you live in your own house.. are youready to pay rent.. electric.. gas bill.. buy food every month.. and stuff like toilet paper.. dish soap all that stuff.? Well all i gotta say is just consider your options.. but your almost 18 so the choice is yours to make. I wasn't ready but yes it works for me because i would do anything to support my child and so would my husband.. lets just hope if you do have this baby you have a good man to stand by you because i couldn't have done/ still do it without my wonderful husbands help. well i c ould have but it would have been hard.. ecspecailly because you wont have your parents to ffall back on anymore.. you will be the parent.
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